If your first wife gives her consent, and you were married in a civil ceremony, then under customary law, you can contract a second wedding. After three days without food and drink in the family basement, she was eventually persuaded into seeing things my way by Mashujaa Day. For the successful applicant for second wife, you should know that weekends are out. The day you have a second wife, she'll sing your song. ' Second Lady, let us also keep our friends and families apart.